How to Shake a Determined Admirer

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You are bound to have your share of admirers, especially in college. While some of these are destined to become passionate romances, others will end up being quite the annoyance. At some point you are going to meet someone who will chase with determination. A rejection means nothing to this person. No matter what you do, you just can’t seem to shake them. Here are some ways to ditch them forever.

 

  • Fake Boyfriend – People have been doing this for years. Just tell this guy that you have a boyfriend. Maybe take some questionable photos with a guy friend just as a means of throwing this guy off. If that doesn’t work, flint with other guys in front of him. This will surely give him the hint that it will never happen.
  • Deal Breakers – Do some investigating on this guys social media. Find out what he loves and holds dearly. When you meet him next, do your best to rip into everything he loves. Announce openly your hate for his favorite bands or television shows. This is a sure way ditch him.
  • Ignore Him – Thankfully, these days you can block people. Block his number on your phone, block him on whatsapp and block him on Facebook. This will send a clear message to the guy that you aren’t interested. If he continues contacting you somehow, it’s time that you go for help.
  • Be Mean – It’s always an option to be blunt and upfront with someone. Tell him that he has no chance of ever being with you. Tell him that if he were the last man on earth you’d still rather be alone. Don’t be nice to him. Be an absolute nightmare to this person. This is one way to shake someone loose.

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